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    1. Tired Of Not Getting What You Want?

      Tired Of Not Getting What You Want?

      Ever wonder why so many of us have to hit rock bottom before we find a breakthrough?

      Let me explain… from working with others I’ve discovered a pattern. Typically after a huge disappointment, fear of failure disappears. When fear of failure disappears taking a positive action becomes easier, yes!?

      Once a major low is hit, the realization that any action that is taken must lead to something better. Think about that for a moment… “any positive action taken leads to something better!” Make sense?

      The Problem.

      Waiting for a major breakdown to get to a breakthrough.

      • Maybe you’re satisfied with mediocrity?
      • Maybe you believe you will fail and subject to the opinion of others??
      • Maybe you are addicted to worry; the past or to drama?
      • Maybe you let overwhelm and distractions get in the way instead of taking the next right action.
      • Maybe you succumb too often to those 5 words that kill more dreams than any other: “I don’t feel like it!”

      For the vast majority of folks I’ve worked with, the answer to the question, “why don’t you do what you have to do to get what you want?” Can be summarized in 5 dream killing words:

      I don’t feel like it!

      And that feeling stops you from taking positive action, keeps you from being consistent. It’s the one reason you’re not getting what you want. Your feelings overpower your commitment. Your feelings overpower your ability to take positive action.

      The Solution.

      Act opposite your feelings.

      The story of Mario Lemieux:

      There are many athletes who have played through or returned from life-threatening illnesses. Others have come back from debilitating injuries that would have forced mere mortals to give the game up.

      And then there is Mario Lemieux, who not only suffered from Hodgkin’s lymphoma but also endured chronic back pain throughout his career.

      With his puck-handling dexterity, long reach and accurate shot, Lemieux won three Most Valuable Player awards in the NHL and six times was its leading scorer.

      Lemieux is the only player to average more than two points a game (2.01). His goal-scoring percentage of .823 (613 goals in 745 games) is the best for players with 150 games.

      I know there where many times Mario “didn’t feel like it” yet his commitment was greater than his feelings.

      When your commitments overpower your feelings that’s when breakthroughs begin.

      When you take action despite your feelings that’s when breakthroughs begin.

      So whose in charge YOU or your feelings?

      If Information Was Enough…

      If Information Was Enough…

      If information was enough, we would all be top performers in our profession, exercise every day, eat more vegetables, be within the government height and weight standard, and have a ton of money saved for the future.

      Think about it… you can Google or YouTube the instruction manual for just about anything. You can access a step-by-step guide; the best practices and the quick start guide. So, I have one simple question – with access to all this information and proven evidence, why do we still struggle with limiting beliefs and behaviors?

      The answer… our feelings outweigh our commitments. When our commitments outweigh our feelings, that’s when a breakthrough begins.

      You see, the 5 words that kill more dreams, more potential and more happiness than any other 5 words spoken: “I don’t feel like it.

      I’m not sure of your dream, yet I suspect for many of you it’s more financial freedom, better health, stronger relationships and more connectedness with your community. Yet let’s face it, so many times when you are about to start something toward those dreams the onslaught of excuses flood your mind like water gushing out of a broken pipe. The theme of these excuses always traces back to the same root… “I don’t feel like it.”

      How many times have you said, “I don’t feel like it?”? How many times have you listened to that thought, allowing it to alter the course of your actions? What has that cost you physically, financially, emotionally? What if you could make a different choice?

      Here is what I know, “I don’t feel like it” is the universal human condition that silently kills dreams. Yet you and I don’t have to accept this dream killer. We can all overcome the feeling and move powerfully towards our goals and dreams. It starts with intention… the intention to live on your terms not the terms of your moods and feelings.

      Read more about the 4 steps you can take right now in my blog, the silent dream killer.

      See if coaching is right for you, speak with us at www.jparcoaching.com

       

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